Originally Posted By: ConcernedGF
...He has never dealt with this, just buried it deep down and actually has convinced himself its no big deal. He has never told anyone but me and says he doesn't trust anyone but me to talk about it with ...

It might be that he doesn't know how it has affected him and because of this doesn't think it's a big deal. I felt the same way. But as things were starting to fall apart on me I had to examine why. I knew that CSA had an effect on me but I thought it was a minimal one. But I got some books from the library anyway. The more I read the more I could tie the way I am to my CSA and other abuse factors.

You might want to get a couple of books on the subject in order to understand it better. And maybe your BF might pick up the book and discover that it is a bigger deal than he thought and might decide to get some help.

Edited by Candu (11/08/12 08:19 PM)