Thanks for responding. You are right on all your points. She does support me, but in many cases, there are issues that set her off. We have met with a councelor and I am learning where to draw the line on how much I can share with her. I have been a calm man for 30 years, playing the victim. I am feeling anger now and sometimes it sneaks out uncontrolled and misplaced. Don't make me mad. You wouldn't like me angry. (Hulk Humor).