Hi. Just seeing your issues along the path of healing as one who has just recently learned of my husbands CSA after 13 yrs of marriage. I want to thank both of you for your willingness to share. It also demonstrates your great desire to be supportive of your spouse. I love my husband to pieces too and am not sure what to expect as he begins to allow himself to face this issue after so many years of silence. His "symptoms" are avoidance of relationships, being withdrawn, insecurity, workaholic, not wanting to have children. He has been faithful to me. We don't have any children. I'm glad he felt he could share this horrible secret with me. I'm just not sure what to do. Is there anything I should specifically be doing besides educating myself about CSA and being there for him to talk to?