Thank you both! DH has EAP through his work, and I made an appointment for us to go in, but it is not for a few weeks. DH is not thrilled about this. He doesn't think it will do any good to talk about it.
He is really trying to be kinder, give more compliments, and to touch and be intimate more often.
My biggest issue, is I'm not sure I can trust him. I've caught him with two inappropriate texts, and I'm not sure if there is more to it. I'm not sure how to handle that angle. Either of you have experience with being cheated on?