Why do so many of us still classify ourselves as victim. We are victors. It is amazing what a positive mindset or attitude can do.

The wife and I are headed to the Mnts for a anniversary vacation. I am a victor. I no longer classify as victim.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her