God can handle all of your anger. Let Him have it. He wants to bare you burdens anyway. I love talking about God to people. I feel Him. I was the worst alcoholic, gambler, sinner in the world. He changed me. He brought 6'1" 210 lb man tumbling and crying like a baby. Poof all my wrongs made right. I pray that for everyone.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her