For me it was like this,
If my yard looked really good and my house did too and if my truck looked clean and sharp then I would not be considered less than or unworthy as no one would know.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her