You are correct on not getting sucked in. This is the day that The Lord has made for me. His will be done in my life. He alone will provide me with whatever I need. Thanks for the kick in the butt
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her