I agree 100% with Megellan. Getting a T who knows and understands trauma and sexual abuse (and the male side of it as well) makes a huge difference.
Only T I found that had a clue (and doesn't work with adults any more) still wasn't all that great. Got me through the beginning, but by the 2nd year it wasn't beneficial anymore.
So now I got squat if I really wanted a T. I did talk to a lady at the local crisis center for awhile, but in only a month I was done on getting any benefit out of it. She's worked for over 13 years with abuse victims, but was utterly clueless with men and had no experience in male survivor issues at all.
Utilize the "Shopping for a Therapist" guide from the main site. It'll help you avoid people who are clueless.
Edited by JustScott (10/12/12 11:27 AM)