Bob said: "That's what therapy has given me. It has helped me lessen my fear for facing hard truths. If I can't be the man and partner I want and need to be for my wife, I'll partner with her as an ex in raising our children as best as we can separately, but I won't drag her through a fucked up and dysfunctional marriage."

This is the promise I want my husband to make and keep for me. That is what I need to know.
Wife of a survivor