Hey Treehugger smile
I hope mods will move your post, maybe you should contact mods directly, by hitting notify and writing to move it?
But to get back to your question, you are caught in some dilemma smile
I would always chose relationship that offers more than physical attraction, but that is me and those are my needs smile
Spending morning and day in company of partner is my dream. It seems like you need that also, so I wonder why you are valuating between these two at all smile ?
You are tree hugger, please give your self also the warmest hug and than ask yourself what do you need from all of this. I'm sure that you have your answer already in your heart.
Not sure if I helped you, but I hope some other guys will also jump in!
Take care of yourself

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