sorry, Rachel.

you have to find what works for both of you.

glad that you are at least getting some help yourself!

hope that works well for you. maybe your therappist can give you some other ideas.

Lee
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"My experience has shown me that I all too often tend to deny that which lies behind, but as I still believe, that which is denied cannot be healed." Brennan Manning, "All is Grace - A Ragamuffin Memoir"