Well Tina this is why they call it a mid-life crisis, LOL

Yep this is what we do sometimes, reason being that we have been told that if we forget about what happened to us, it will go away, fact is that it does not, it festers in our brains for years and years until it cant do anywhere but out, and this usually happens in our 40's.
Main thing is not to panic now, this does not always meant that he wants to run of with a bunch of guys and change his life.
Thinking of and actually doing are different things.

Try and get him into therapy for the CSA and see if he is keen to try it.

Heal well
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