It is emotionally draining when you go they this part of recovery. I can remember so many feelings and so many emotions an thoughts surfacing all at the same time. I hope you find this place as helpful as I have. I wish you the best but to answer your question , no it is not uncommon. You are amount friend here and your not alone in your feelings.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her