Well let me say this Gary. It is terrible that people treat you in such a manner. We are suppose to love one another and not judge. That is just good humanity. I am really sorry that you go they things like this. I love ya brother no matter what religion you are. I love you for just being a human being. Everyone here the same. We may squabble and not see eye to eye but dang we are in this fight together. I ain't too proud to acknowledge that I don't have all the answers but I can care for someone if I can't do anything else.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her