We are so strong. We are survivors. We survived something that is so horrific that they lock some people away for life. We have triggers yeah, but we also have a desire to get better when it would be so much easier to just say screw it and quit. We face soooo many fears and yet we still make it. We down ourselves alot and for what? We are amongst some of the elite people here. People that not only are healing but along the path of healing are trying to help others. Wow. That is so unselfish. I think a great deal of everyone here an can only stand back and say , men keep your chin high because you truly help someone wether you know it or not. Yeah ain't where we need to be but we ain't where we were either. Bravo to all the men and families on this site who help and are getting better.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her