Just the smallest little thing said or done can bring a trigger and start depression. It is amazing that it is so easy to be torn completely down to the point where you want to just give up by just a few words. It is like taking a fire and just pouring water all over it. It is like getting punched right the the sternum or getting slapped in the head with a ball bat. I mean I would rather be kicked in the mouth than feel like I feel when I get depressed. I just don't understand it. Sometimes I think that isolation is the only way.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her