I have never joined an online site like this before but feel I really need support at the moment. I am the partner of a wonderful man who was horrifically sexual abused as a teenager. He kept 'his secret' for 27 years before seeking help last year He loves me deeply but like so many of you feels that he is not worthy of my love and pushes me away and 'blanks me'. My rational 'head' knows this is not personal but as his partner it is so hard. I love him with all my heart and want to do my best by him and for him, respecting his needs but without making myself depressed tired.

Any support or advise would be wonderful as I feel very alone.

Edited by Avyi (10/12/12 09:41 PM)
Edit Reason: Information given was too personal