... Looked at me like "why are YOU even looking at a 13yo's weight you old fkg pedo!" Or...his eyes were squinting from the bright sun...but I default to the worst.

I think this is called counter-projection. It's a tough one for us.

I haven't found any therapist who knows how to deal with this. Even the T's seem to fall into the trap.


Edited by pufferfish (09/15/12 01:33 AM)