Brother I can feel the frustration u must have. All I can say is pray about it as seek Gods will for yourself. God answers all prayers it is just that sometimes we just don't accept wait or not now as an answer. I do know that all things work out for those who believe in Christ. Also prayer with fasting something is a good sacrifice to show the Lord you ate committed. I wish the best for you.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her