Thanks alot Gary. I spoke with my wife about how foolish I use to be. I thought I had to quit drinking to go to church , I thought I had to live right to go to church and have a relationship with God. That was just foolish. I had to get a relationship with Him and He took all of those wants from me. Alot of times people feel like God has to show them something. Like He works for us. We receive blessings after we bless other thru Him.
Ephesians 6:13

Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her