Right there with you Esposa. I demanded that my husband end the 12+ year relationship he had with his phone sex operator, made him aware of a friend who was not only talking to people about his issues but was manipulating his other friendships, and informed him we could no longer afford his phone sex habit.

His complaint? "You're just trying to control me and TAKE AWAY ALL MY COPING MECHANISMS!"

Yup. HIs words. Verbatim.