I recently discovered that he died a few years back. Very mixed emotions over this. I don't know if I would have confronted him given the chance, but now I will never even have the chance. 30 years ago I had the oportunity to stand up and have my voice heard and perhaps stop his future abuse on others, but I didn't. But that's for another post, someday.
"Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them." -Daliai Lama