Gentlemen, I admire the restraint and the eloquence of the posting here. Your desire to be heard has thus far outweighed the impulse to be right, well done. We post and reply to support and connect in MaleSurvivor, opinions are welcome, but we will not be stifling any thoughts about this topic, and you all have modeled the epitome of self control.

I appreciate the cerebral response to this issue as we work out the intense feelings concerning this hotbed topic, my heart goes out to you as you deliberate. Please continue to reconcile, to connect and to reinforce these relationships through this difficult series of events.