Bodyguard, thank you! I'm glad you got something out of my blog. I just read your story too, and I can really relate to what you describe. I think it's terrible when I see legal experts or psychologists try to reduce sibling abuse/incest to age, as if the perpetrator has to be significantly older for it all to qualify as abuse. That isn't true at all, someone your own age or even younger could still violate, traumatize, and rape you. Take care,