I am in the quagmire of processing my own childhood sexual abuse and I'm sure as many of you know, it's quite like nothing else. One of the things I am consistently frustrated with is that I can't find anyone my age to discuss the stuff with. I'm not sure why, but i think having other guys in their 20's (I'm 24) would somehow help me in not feeling so different and aberrant. I've definitely come a long way in my own validation of the sexual abuse, but i still have a lot to go. It's nice knowing there are men out there struggling with this too.
Take care all,