Hi Rees
Thank you for sharing your story with us. Sad as it is, I can understand how this could have happened, I was also in the SA air force and know the circumstances at that time. We have much in common, I was also to be trained as a air traffic controller, but due to an eye injury, I was taken from the course.
I don't feel that I have enough confidence and leadership qualities to be part of a support group for men, but I support your endeavors.

I have started my own journey, thanks for leading the way.
When there are dolphins in the waves,
the sharks wont get to us.
I believed my dad that day
and became Dolphinboy,
my own protector.