Wow, Nate, I sure can relate with that one, and I'm sure many others here do too.
It helps to hear this from others. I'm really glad you brought that point up and into the open. It's a painful one, and it's not something we share very often with anyone.
I have taken to the stand-up comedy stage to educate other male survivors and those who try to love them. I blog about my isolated religious upbringing where physical and sexual abuse were commonplace and I serve as a facilitator of a weekly support group for men who have suffered sexual assault.