Just replied to your other post, read it and don't get discouraged, but do look after yourself here.
You can only advise and encourage him, but you can heal yourself and prepare for any eventuality. If things don't work out then you are ready to continue on your own, if they do work out then you will be a stronger happier person, able to support him and not get hurt yourself.
Let us know how it goes.
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