I'm new to this forum. I can't say for sure if our CSA made us gay. For a while i thought it did. My mother who is also my abuser has a bizarre Mother/Goddess complex. My father is a total wimp. So i fit the classic profile of weak father, domineering mother. However i have found that sexuality is a mysterious thing and does fit into a pattern. All theories have grain of truth in them, but no theory have ever been proven.