You stated that some topics are inappropriate. Is there anything inappropriate about sexual abuse? This site is all about the inappropriate behavior we sufferred as children. How could our thoughts be appropriate after horrendous abuse and in some cases torture.
I am 57 years old and the victim of Mother-Son incest. The first half of my life was inappropriate! I have three beautiful children and 4 grandchildren. I did not repeat the abuse!I did spend 15 years in therapy learning how to be appropriate.
So unless You are all without emotional and physical scars, just support DH and cease the judgemental commets.
Only PERPS are not allowed into this safe arena.