Sorry, But I've just had it. I spent years of my life questioning my sexuality, and then years questioning why my sexuality was oriented toward older men. Why should I question? Why should anyone question. Stop trying to be the victim and blaming everything on being the victim. No one ever told a woman she was attracted to older men because she was molested by her father. Taste can not be argued and it cannot be changed.

As to why I joined and posted that, there it is. NOT a victim of incest. YES it is a legitimate fetish, not always borne out of abuse. DEAL WITH IT.

If you happened to have been molested and happen to be gay and like older men, stop always trying to pathologize it. It could be worse. Straight boys who are molested by their fathers usually grow up to BEAT and KILL other gay men, rather than seeking them out for sex.

Edited by Bearaffe (11/06/11 07:24 PM)