1. He came home from the therapy he was seeking for porn addiction and said something like "I was abused when I was a child"

2. I never in a million years would have guessed he was abused. I was also surprised about the porn addiction.

3. He immediately QUIT recovery. It took 3.5 years, return of porn and confessed affairs for him to return to a recovery program. Him getting help is was the only thing I would accept in exchange for not leaving him.

Wife of a survivor