So his T said maybe my purpose was to bring him to the point he is at, dealing with and confronting his abuse. So thats its for me? I have served my purpose now step aside. What about all the crap I went through and dealt with as he acted out but now he's healing and becoming the man I met, I dont get to have that?
I wish I could be strong right now and say I wish him happiness but I dont.
I'm sorry if I seem dissmissive but I am so angry, angry at the man I stood by after he told me about his abuse, tried to understand as he acted out, supported him through everything. To then be told I by him that I'm a wonderful person but I shouldnt have put up with it, now I blamed for supporting him. And now I have 'served my purpose' so go away.
I'm so angry....and heartbroken.