Thanks D for posting the link. I read the story and am outraged that society doesn't do anything about male victimization. What really makes me mad is that NC, my home state, labels it sexual assault and not rape. Men can be raped. That isn't fair, get with the times and upgrade the laws to protect victims. I'm sorry Pete that you had to go thru with all of the invasive proceedures. That wasn't too much info. The more you talk about it, the easier it will be for you.