when the assaults occurred? This issue keeps coming up for me since I was 16 when the abuse happened so I'm never quite sure where I fit or what to call it. On one hand, the standard legal definition of a child is anyone under the age of 18, yet on the other its very hard for me to consider myself one at that age, compared to the stories of men who experienced sa when they were little kids. People's thoughts on this are appreciated. Like I said I just want to know where I fit. JS

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