charlie, i dont know if you know, but i work in the disabilities industry. Generally, if you were not diagnosed with autism , at an early age, there may be a chance that you dont have autism... it is easy as an adult to find assistance. First you need to see a dr that specializes in autism spectrum disorders and have yourself tested. easy enough. Social phobia is something that people who have survived csa expierence. check it out. aspergers, is high functioning autism, can be dibilitating because of social unawareness and hyper intelligence...lets talk...
" If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drum. Let him step to the music he hears, however measured or far away." Henry David Thoreau