I'm glad that we got all this sorted out. I am suprised with the interest that this post generated. 45 or so...wow. I don't think I've seen too many this long. And plus I noticed some other threads that spun off this one.
Keep posting on this subject. The more I read the more I understand myself and everyone here.
See ya later,
"It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end."
--Ursula K. Le Guin
"Mental health is a commitment to reality at all times."
--M. Scott Peck