Originally Posted By: Charlie24
Guys I need some advice please. I'm struggling with how to deal with myself. I seem to be very hard on myself. I'm not very forgiving of myself and rarely show compassion to myself. In some ways I've gotten into this pattern of self doubt negative talk.


Don't I know it... I keep finding more of my self-hatred, and forgiveness of myself has been key in having the self-hatred removed (thank you God). Someone on this site pointed me at some youtube clips of Caroline Myss that have been an awesome blessing to me, http://www.myss.com/ .
check this one out;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sZKwLoLiaI .
Be advised that she is oft tagged as a Spiritualist of Mystic; this can be off-putting to some (in the mid-90s I would have called her a heathen or a charlatan, those were my intolerant days.). She speaks of forgiveness in a manner that touches me and has aided me in coming to a new freedom. I also picked up the idea of praying for the forgiveness I need for myself and others during a convention for Sexaholics that I was at in Jan/09.

I pray you find this blesses your immortal soul.

Love, Wes

Happy to be a recovering survivor. :-)

Continuing to meet more of my fellows as I "Trudge the Road of Happy Destiny".

My Story, 1st pass