I am sorry it is uncomfortable to you to hear such. But I think it is quite truth that many abusers of 'same gender' sexual abuse really are what is to be thought 'heterosexual'. I think that is because in thought and emotion, sexual abuse and rape, it is more about 'control' and 'power' then about the actual act of sex. That is my understanding of it. I do not know nothing of your abusers, of what orientation they was. But I do not think it impossible that they could have been male and still be considered 'heterosexual'. I am not 'making excuses' for any one or anything. It is just how I understand of it. I could much be wrong, I am sure.
And welcome to here.
Edited by ak (01/12/08 01:29 AM)