I want to echo Brian and Larry. Search for the book "Victims No Longer". It is a great information source with lots of insights from the author.
Look into this site, find resources, artcles, and, as was said, continue to post and talk with other guys.
You will alwats have a moderator support and feel free to PM with any questions.
When you feel all alone and unhappy, turn to you Inner Child and talk to Him.
You will see He can comfort you like nothing else!