something i noticed is how dh is always doing stuff behind my back,not exactly acting out. it makes me feel like his is a teen & trying tto get away with stuff behimd his momma's back. he does not share much and i'm left to go behind him all the time cheking up on him picking up his messes from not thinking it threw. i wonder if his hiding things fr me is a replay from the secretss he kept from his mom & dad about the abuse back than? anyone hav this with ther boyfnd or husband 2?