You know, that is a very interesting topic. I have told my wife about my CSA and even my oldest son. However, I have not gotten into the specific details or the abuse or my subsequent behaviors over the past years. Is there any recommendations on this? I spoke with the therapist I was seeing earlier this year and she really didn't have much to say on it other than...if you think it will hurt your spouse or othes be careful and maybe it would be better not tell them. Is this consistent with what most have heard?