I realize that the results of whatever method I chose to obtain closure are entirely unique and personal, but what kind of results should I expect? What did you guys get out of it? Perhaps it is inappropriate to be anticipating anything specific and may end up being counterproductive to my efforts.
I'll check out your link Larry, thanks. If I am having trouble coming up with thoughts for my own personal closure I'll ask for help finding yours in the archives.
Guilt and shame have never done any of us any good at all.