His "technique" for probing my boundaries was too refined, too methodical, and flawless. He knew exactly what to do, how far to go, and what to say to me as he was doing it. He had the entire playbook pre-read before he got to me.

I REALLY want to find other victims of him. I REALLY think I could find some sense of closure with finding other survivors. But.......my dilemma is how to go about it. I've CONSIDERED buying an advertisement in the local newspaper of the town in which "it" happened. I will bring this up with my T for sure.

But, even though my perp is now dead , there are the legal issues to consider, such as defamation of character of his surviving family members, etc. Who knows?

I just really honestly believe that I could find healing in the finding of another survivor of this perp.