Spawn, if you are in the US, you may want to read some info from RAINN or talk to someone over the phone: Their email address is: Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network
Their 24/7 phone hotline is: 1.800.656.HOPE
You can also check out this article and others on its site: Male rape myths and facts
Please read as much as you can about this subject. There are several partners on this site whose signifigant others were raped as well. Hopefully they can give you some more helpful info.
Edited by violet (10/17/07 06:49 PM)
I was silent as a child, and silenced as a young woman; I am taking my lumps and bumps for being a big mouth, now, but usually from those whose opinion I don't respect. - Sandra Cisneros