I found that I have become very protective of my husband in the past few months.

The funny thing is that when I told my spouse this, he took it as one of the most meaningful things anyone has ever said to him.

It's very hard for me to stay out of it when all I want to do is to have a little chat with his cousin.

But I stayed out of the above conversation, though in a sick way, I wish I would have been the one to tell him that we knew. But I think it is better this way for my husband.


I was silent as a child, and silenced as a young woman; I am taking my lumps and bumps for being a big mouth, now, but usually from those whose opinion I don't respect. - Sandra Cisneros