Hi VN,

Sometimes we just aren't okay. And sometimes these people don't seem to give a damn about it. They don't know. They really don't. And they can't 'get it' when we can't 'get over it', or 'move on', or whatever. Sometimes sarcasm is the only defense.
Sometimes honesty doesn't work, and sometimes it does. But hey, whatever you feel belongs to you, not someone else who doesn't know the hell you've been through. That said, you've got people here who relate, and support you.