To Female Spouses - How do you talk about sexuality?

Don't laugh - I have been married 21 years and we have never really talked about sexuality. I don't know how to approach the subject.

I do have sexuality issues...but that does mean I don't love her and have every intention of staying with her and not acting on my impulses - but talking about them with her may help. She thinks anything but 100% straight is immoral but I don't think I am 100% straight - but that does not mean I don't love her. I have not cut myself (and if any of you have read some of my previous posts you know this is a BIG issue for me) and have not acted out in over 9 months - but I still struggle sometimes (thank god for Zanex). Is just talking about it betrayal?

Edited by kellygtx (09/28/07 12:04 PM)
I bid you Peace.


The time is always NOW. Breath In. Breath Out. Move On.