Hi again,

I totally agree with TW, especially when family members are involved. And yes, obsession was a way of coping with pain for me too. As I said, the T better know what he/she is doing. Otherwise, there could be even more problems, as I well know. My prayers are with you, Luke. I wish you as much peace as possible while you heal (it's a long, painful process, but the pain doesn't have to be all there is).